Abayei the Kohen. A) His name was Nachmani, named after his grandfather, the father of Rabba [as stated in Shabbat (33a), “I know Nachmani,” and there (74a) Rava said, “Nachmani speaks well,” and likewise in Me'ilah (20b) Rava said, “Nachmani speaks well,” and in Avodah Zarah, in the chapter of Rabbi Yishmael, Rava said, “I have heard from Nachmani this teaching,” and in the chapter of the sender, it is stated that the Gemara and the law follow Nachmani, and in Gittin (45a) it is mentioned that a donkey was lost to him among the Kutim, and he gave a sign that its belly was white, and they sent to him, “If not for Nachmani, I would say that he is not lying,” etc.].
And so wrote the Aruch in the entry of Abayei, that Nachmani was his name, and he was the son of the brother of Rabba bar Nachmani and his student. And since his name was Nachmani in the name of Rabba’s father, he was not called Nachmani at all times in the name of his father, but he was called Abayei in the Aramaic language, like a person who calls his father “Abba,” and thus he was called Abayei, so it is stated].
And Rashi also wrote in the chapter of the receiver that he was called Abayei so as not to be remembered by the name of his father, and some say the opposite, that his name was Abayei, and Rabba, because he raised him and taught him Torah, called him Nachmani in the name of his father, as he was like a son to him, and so Rashi explained in Gittin [(34b). And regarding what Rashi wrote at the end of Horayot, “that he was called Nachmani in a derogatory manner,” meaning, “You are still a student of Rav Nachman,” the Be'er Sheva wrote that this is a mistake and the Talmud is mistaken in writing this (certainly it is a mistake, for I have brought above that the Gemara stated, “the law follows Nachmani,” and furthermore in Pesachim (112b) it was decreed concerning the letter of the daughter of Machlat that she should not come to the settlement, and she said to him, “If not for the announcement in the heavens, beware of Nachmani, your danger.” And in the chapter of “Even though” it is stated that a wall came after the death of Abayei before Rabba and said to him, “Give me wine,” he said, “I know Nachmani, that there were not two donkeys.” And if Nachmani were a derogatory term, the Gemara would not have called him simply Nachmani in the heavens, and after his death, Nachmani, and it is clear)].
And before he was born, his father died, and after he was born, his mother died, and Abayei said, “An acronym for ‘Asher Becha Yerucham Yatom’” [(Hosea 14:2), and in Megillat Amukot, section 1, page 92, “But I will return to you” (Lamentations 3:) to fulfill the verse, “You were an orphan, you helped”]. And regarding what Abayei said to me if, [Shabbat (66b, 134a) and Eruvin (29b, 65a) Yoma (78b) Makkot (12a, 18b)] this is from his mother [(Kiddushin 31b)].
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